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Management Challenges
Dealing With Human Speed Bumps ! By Robert Bacal
Mary Duncan, Director of the Income Security branch, left
the staff meeting with her stomach churning and her blood
pressure high. Sitting down alone in her office she wondered
to herself whether John, an office head was going
to continue to obstruct implementation of anything new or
different. "He must know that the politicians had already
decided about the changes, and that it is our job to implement
the changes", she thought to herself. She knew that others
in the meeting had shown their impatience when John, yet
again, cautioned about the need to go very slowly, or face
disaster. The rolling of eyes, the heavy sighs when John
spoke didn't bode well, she thought. What to do?
Mary is contending with a common situation, one that we
have labelled the human speed bump syndrome. Many work groups
and teams have at least one of these bumps in the organization,
and they attempt to function just like those speed bumps
in mall parking lots; encouraging others to slow down. In
the worst cases the human speed bump seems to stall the
entire organization, and can be relied upon to puncture
any enthusiasm others may have about changes in the organization.
Speed Bump Behaviour
At one time or other most of us operate as human speed
bumps. In fact, as we will see later, speed bump behaviour
isn't all bad; organizations can make effective use
of speed bumps to avoid reckless or badly though-out
decisions. Here are some behaviours commonly used by
human speed bumps.
. pointing out negative or problematic aspects
of a plan, process, or change
. presenting their objections (sometimes with
well thought out reasons, sometimes with only vague,
ill-defined objections)
. resists change, often questioning the need to
change . often advises a "go slow" approach, even
when it is clear that going slow is impossible or
will result in severe negative consequences
. may stall or procrastinate on doing his/her
part, thereby slowing down the entire organization.
Speed Bump Fall-Out
Speed bumps can affect an organization in a number of negative
ways, particularly if their abilities aren't channelled
effectively. For example, human speed bumps:
. are usually perceived as negative and defeatist
by other members of the group, and tend to frustrate
others. As a result, they may become involved in open
arguments as people lose patience with them.
. can actually slow down changes or actions that
an organization MUST take.
. can negatively affect group morale and enthusiasm
. may become performance problems if they perceive
that their speed bump contributions are ignored
or unwanted
Speed Bump Upsides
While it may sound that human speed bumps are a curse on
organizations, it isn't necessarily so. Speed bumps can
contribute by helping group members reflect on their actions
and decisions, and acting as "sober second thought" so that
the organization doesn't make decisions in a flurry of excitement,
emotion or group-think. Not only can the human speed bump
slow down the organization's ride on the highway s/he can
also avoid the vehicle hurtling headlong over the cliff.
Just like a car needs brakes to function safely, so does
each organization need an ability to look at the downside
of decisions and actions. This is particularly the case
if the organization has a number of "Hot Rodders" on
staff (see article next month).
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Dealing With The Speed Bump
We are going to assume that the human speed bump is a competent
employee; someone with knowledge and skill. Incompetent
speed bumps are a different type of problem, often best
handled via standard performance management/coaching processes.
If we scratch the surface of a speed bump, what we may
find is someone who is particularly adept at finding
the flaws in new plans, decisions, and actions. What we
need to do is to allow the speed bump to use that capability
in an officially sanctioned way. Consider having the speed
bump do a critical analysis of a projected course of action.
For example, if the organization has three options, ask
that the speed bump analyze and identify BOTH the strengths
and weaknesses of each option. It may be necessary to help
the person by making sure that the problem is properly defined
and the goals of the problem-solving are clear.
It is important that we do not encourage, or even permit
the speed bump to take pot-shots at others ideas at every
turn. For this reason, it is important that the following
rule be followed. If you have criticisms of an approach
or plan, feel free to express your concerns, but you will
be expected to suggest a better idea. If the group follows
this rule, you will find that even the most ardent speed
bumps will exercise caution, knowing that they will be asked
for their recommendation if they are offering criticism.
It is also important that objections be taken seriously
(eg. at meetings, etc), rather than being brushed off as
"just so much negativity". Clearly there must be limits,
though. There is a point where it becomes obvious that the
speed bump has no really good reasons for his/her cautions
or objections, and it is at this point that further discussion
will be wasteful. Try to listen for two forms of objection.
The first seems logical and thought out, while the second
sounds more emotional and related to personal discomfort.
Do not let the person pass off his/her personal vague discomfort
with something as logical argument.
There are situations where the speed bump has become a
bona fide impediment to the organization, due to consistent
and persistent obstruction. When this occurs, direct manager/team
leader intervention is indicated. It is legitimate to talk
to the individual privately, to discuss how his/her comments
are affecting other organization members. Remember that
the human speed bump is a style of interaction, and that
the person in question may not be aware that the approach
is difficult for others. A good way to begin such a discussion
is to ask some questions first. For example:
. Have you noticed that people seem to be getting
a little frustrated at our meetings?
. Have you any ideas why frustration might be increasing?
. Have you considered that the WAY you are communicating
may be putting you in a difficult situation?
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If possible, get the human speed bump to generate
the solutions, rather than supplying them.
Conclusion:
Organizations need people to help them reflect on decisions
and actions, and to prevent them from plunging over
cliffs because of group-think, over-enthusiasm, or decision-making
done under stressful and pressure situations. That said,
speed bumps can be disruptive and frustrating. Keep in mind
that it will be far easier to channel the abilities of the
speed bump into useful action, than to change the style
of the speed bump.
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